The Mystery Man
I had my own condo, and finally re-established financial independence after a few failed relationships. I dated a guy that was financially quite well off. He would travel for weeks at a time that kept me intrigued but also off-balance, providing little information to ascertain whether trips were personal or professional. My friends provided signs that he wasn’t very nice, but I would make excuses. I found his behavior erratic- he could be charming at times but then aloof. I found holes in his stories, learning he was not honest.
The relationship continued for several years, until he asked me to care for his condo while he was gone. I found a letter from another woman that seemingly had a parallel relationship- it was like looking in the mirror. I addressed the subject to which he offered no apology or explanation. I am still in the relationship, afraid to lose the “perks” but constantly is in a state of comprise, anxiety and unknown. Help!
